Life Goes On. Things Change.

I’d like to talk about friends. well best friends. to be specific i’d like to talk about my best friend.  I’ve known him since we were kids. The funny thing is we never went to the same school, we never had sleep overs or went to each others parties. We never did any of that kind of thing when we were young. The truth is we hardly saw each other at all until we were teenagers, and even then we were at different high schools. We just used to met up for a week of so a few times a year at church camps during the school holidays, and we always used to get on immediately.

It’s true we have done more of the friend type things over the last few years and we’re probably closer since we both finished high school and moved out of home, but now our lives seem to be going in different directions. We live 2 ½ hours apart, I’m at uni while he works, and we are both developing new friends and new lives for ourselves as adults. We still hit it of immediately whenever we get together, but I’m starting to get the feeling that sometimes he’s reluctant to let me into his new life, and I’m  not always sure that I’d want him in part’s of mine.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s not like our friendship’s in trouble or anything, it’s just changing, I guess that’s normal, it’s changed before and it will change again. He’s still the best friend I’ve got and hope he always will be.

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~ by romalucky13 on August 28, 2007.